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Goodbye, Pump. I Will Miss You…Maybe…

Today, I said goodbye to a commitment I didn’t even know I wanted. I’m walking around in a daze because it has come to an end and I can’t decide if I’m supposed to smile, laugh, cry or a combination of all three.

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I never had any intentions of breastfeeding. It seemed really hard. I wanted to be able to sleep through feedings (or at least share them with Dad) when I needed the rest. I wanted to go back to eating whatever I wanted. Did I mention it seemed really hard? The excuses before he was born were endless.

After holding my son for just a few seconds on the day he was born, he was transferred to the NICU for a little extra TLC. During my recovery, a nurse asked if I was planning to breastfeed. The word “yes” came out of my mouth so fast that I still don’t even know if it was really me who said it.

There were challenges from the start that made our breastfeeding experience difficult, but I pushed our care team to let me try just a few more minutes each day. Every feed was a combination of nursing, bottle feeding a fortified version of my breast milk, and pumping the excess to save for the next feed. It was exhausting, not just for me, but for my son as well.

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Somehow, we kept it up until I hit my breaking point around the 9 week mark. It should have been getting easier, but it just wasn’t. He had been nursing all day long and I was incredibly proud. He then proceeded to scream bloody murder from 5pm until midnight because he was starving. I was starving my own child.

In an effort to completely control the number of ounces he was consuming in a day, I switched to exclusively pumping. It was hard in a different way. I couldn’t leave the house for anything more than a three hour time span (until I discovered the beauty of the hand pump) and cleaning the bottles and pump parts each night was annoying. It slowly became easier and I’m thankful for a supportive husband who cleaned and organized each night as I pumped the last bottle.

Over the past ten months, I’ve pumped approximately 1,200 times across six different states, a car traveling 80mph on the highway, a high-speed train to NYC, and two planes. It hasn’t been easy, but I’m proud to say that I did the very best that I could given the situation.

Goodbye pump. I don’t know if we’ll ever meet again…. but I can’t say that I’ll miss you right now.

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